About the Author

The Man Matrix was founded and authored by life and executive coach, author and speaker Neil Bierbaum. 

NEIL BIERBAUM is an internationally accredited high performance leadership and life coach with more than 20 years’ experience. In the corporate world, he works with leaders and teams in blue chip companies to improve performance through better communication and trust, and to develop the right mindset for navigating uncertainty. As a life coach, he supports men to navigate the stages of maturity.

He shares his learning and experience through his Substack newsletter The Mindset and his YouTube channel. He holds a MPhil in Leadership Coaching (cum laude) from Stellenbosch Business School.

He is also a long-term meditator, award-winning writer, business and economics graduate, husband, father and friend, and keen social observer.

As a speaker, Neil doesn’t just teach concepts; he embodies them, bringing a level of authenticity and insight that is both rare and invaluable.

NEIL BIERBAUM is an internationally accredited high performance leadership and life coach with more than 20 years’ experience. In the corporate world, he works with leaders and teams in blue chip companies to improve performance through better communication and trust, and to develop the right mindset for navigating uncertainty. As a life coach, he supports men to navigate the stages of maturity.

He shares his learning and experience through his Substack newsletter The Mindset and his YouTube channel. He holds a MPhil in Leadership Coaching (cum laude) from Stellenbosch Business School.

He is also a long-term meditator, award-winning writer, business and economics graduate, husband, father and friend, and keen social observer.

As a speaker, Neil doesn’t just teach concepts; he embodies them, bringing a level of authenticity and insight that is both rare and invaluable.

Media Appearances by Neil Bierbaum

Title: How men determine their worth – and what to do when things go wrong

Subject: If men have a biological tendency to seek self-worth through personal, independent performance, what happens when they can’t work or don’t reach their goals? Executive coach Neil Bierbaum explores manhood and the 4 stages of maturity, including a possible mid-life crisis. He discusses countering the loss of identity and recognition by deliberately creating a meaningful context and cultivating acceptance.

Medium: Podcast

Program: Calm, Clear & Helpful

Broadcast: 27 May 2025

Host: Mariette Snyman

Link: https://www.mariettesnyman.co.za/blog/how-men-determine-their-worth

Title: Neil Bierbaum on being a careless rebel, challenges, and coaching men

Subject: A mindset coach who focuses on executive coaching, leadership development, team building and public speaking writes about being the editor of men’s magazines, finding that limitations fuel creativity, and not wasting energy on resistance.

Medium: Website blog

Website: Mariette Snyman https://www.mariettesnyman.co.za/

Published: 27 May 2025

Author: Mariette Snyman

Link: https://www.mariettesnyman.co.za/up-close-and-personal/neil-bierbaum

Men, Mental Health & Work

Subject: Men’s mental health as it relates to the work context

Medium: Facebook Live

Website: The South African Depression & Anxiety Group (SADAG)
https://www.sadag.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=3200&Itemid=563

Published: 06 June 2025 @ 13h00 (Live)

Interviewer: Tevin Sutcliffe

Link: https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1ANT1EVFLf/

Also by Neil Bierbaum

BOOKS

ONLINE COURSES

Self-Coaching Online | Life
An online self-coaching version of the Personal Effectiveness Life Coaching Program.
Self-Coaching Online | Executive
An online self-coaching version of the Personal Effectiveness Executive Coaching Program.
Practical Mindfulness
An online self-guided version of this six-module applied mindfulness program.

WEBSITES